Marriage.

I've gone through many phases in the past 16.9 years of my life where I went from hating the idea of marriage to only thinking about marriage. I kind of want to blame movies about marriage and relationships and what not. In example, He's Just Not That Into You. I haven't read the book, but I did see the movie. And it really got me thinkin about all of this kind of stuff. I will say this though, marriage can ruin relationships. I've seen it happen over and over, all the time. And I'm sure a lot of people can come to agree with me, which is why people wanna avoid it. Like my best friends mom for instance. She doesn't want to marry her boyfriend because she's been married before and saw how it can screw things up. I just feel that maybe the whole labeling a relationship gets to peoples heads. You feel that you have new obligations in life, when honestly getting married is just saying that he/she is your wife/husband. Nothing changes, at least in my perspective.

We are all told that being in a marriage, is like an anchor tying you down to the floor. We're told that it holds you back from doing most things. But seriously, its only like that if you make it to be so. Not a hard concept to understand. If people would stop thinking about all the wrongs that could happen in labeling a relationship into a marriage, then people would stop bitchin and dickin around. And now i'm blabbering and losing my train of thought. Stupid facebook, stupid cold.